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Having Difficulty Making Decisions? This Subtle Shift in Your Perspective May Change the Way You Approach Decisions from Now On.

Having Difficulty Making Decisions? This Subtle Shift in Your Perspective May Change the Way You Approach Decisions from Now On.

Last weekend I was at my friend Emily’s barbeque party. After we had our full share of sausages, kebabs, and salads, and settled down at the table with the drinks, Emily said she was facing a serious dilemma and needed advice.

An effective hack to instantly take the edge off a negative emotion

An effective hack to instantly take the edge off a negative emotion

When experiencing a negative emotion, we often try to ignore it, pretend it's not there, or distract ourselves. Unfortunately, it requires a lot of energy and does not always work. A surprisingly effective strategy to diminish a negative emotion is to actually stay with the emotion, identify it, and name it in your mind or say it out loud. Psychologists call it Affect Labeling (naming your feelings)